This month, May 2026, is my fifth month of being self-employed. For the past five years, I have worked a full-time job in addition to being self-employed. So technically, my work load is still about the same, but the payoff Is priceless! When making the decision to work from home full-time, I had to consider […]
Author: Patsy
AI, Virtual, Online and Human Interaction
I tried to book and appointment with my eye doctor, I’d been putting off making appointments getting lazy, I need to schedule a dental cleaning as well. I desperately needed more contacts and the appointments were booking out to August or later. Turns out the website I get contacts from can do an eye exam […]
Progress, Not Perfection
It took me a while to understand that perfectionism could exist in an environment where things were very messy and chaotic. Let me explain, I always assumed a perfectionist would have a clean house, finances in order, clean desk or car etc. So when I started following a self help blogger known as the Flylady […]
Healing and Harm
We all like the idea of healing, healing is synonymous with wellness, we want to live the best life we can live. We wanna feel our best,and look our best. We want the energy to do the things that bring us joy, we want to be able to do the things that earn us income […]
Time Flies: Weekend Musings
Too late? The picture above was taken a decade ago! Time is moving quickly, the more I follow the Gen X side of social media the more I see posts screaming that if you’re 50 you have 26 yrs left! 26 years I’ve been a mom for 25 yrs and that flew by! I’ve been […]
What is Beautiful?
Maybe, I’m just an old soul. Maybe, I want the best of both worlds. I like having an only fans and I love the convenience of the Internet and all the apps on my phone but part of me likes doing things the old-fashioned way. When I think back to how things used to be, […]
How I Shower: What it Means
Sometimes I wonder if I’m just better off not knowing things and what those things actually say about me! Not long ago I had a conversation about two and three syllable car names and learned that Corvette is not pronounced “Cor ah vette” that sent me down a rabbit trail wondering what else have I […]
Life in My 50’s : Chair Yoga
First of all, I have to say I really don’t feel like I’m in my 50s but I am! I will be 54 this September. Since entering my 50s, I have begun a series of changes some have lasted and some were discarded almost immediately but many are frequently revisited! I began doing chair yoga […]
Blogging My Adventures
This past January I decided it was time to leave my full time job as a retail administrative assistant. After 13 years with the company and very little increase in pay, I knew it was time to move on. While I was grateful for my time with the company there was little opportunity for growth, […]
7 Steps To Your Dream Life!
It’s time! The past few years have been about growth and change. Preparing for this moment. I’ve been doing a lot of work on myself. I’ve gotten sober! That was my step one for creating lasting change, eliminating my temptation to disappear into a bottle after a harsh defeat. Instead facing my fears and attacking […]