Yesterday I turned 54. When I look back at my parents at my age I thought they were so old! Now my mom has been gone for 7 years and my dad just turned 88! Looking at life through their experiences , I wonder, will I live to be 80 like my mom? That’s another […]
Life doesn’t always follow the path we think it’s going to follow. The year I turned 50 I was living in an apartment. My divorce was being finalized. I was in my second year, running a successful only fans account. I finally bought the Volvo I had always wanted, all by myself. I had given […]
I tend to function well in a clear system or structure. At my last job my brain always enjoyed the cash office part of my work day. It was predictable enough, structured and yet with occasional problem solving. The other parts of my work day were less clear, they varied with the needs of my […]
This month, May 2026, is my fifth month of being self-employed. For the past five years, I have worked a full-time job in addition to being self-employed. So technically, my work load is still about the same, but the payoff Is priceless! When making the decision to work from home full-time, I had to consider […]
It took me a while to understand that perfectionism could exist in an environment where things were very messy and chaotic. Let me explain, I always assumed a perfectionist would have a clean house, finances in order, clean desk or car etc. So when I started following a self help blogger known as the Flylady […]
We all like the idea of healing, healing is synonymous with wellness, we want to live the best life we can live. We wanna feel our best,and look our best. We want the energy to do the things that bring us joy, we want to be able to do the things that earn us income […]
Too late? The picture above was taken a decade ago! Time is moving quickly, the more I follow the Gen X side of social media the more I see posts screaming that if you’re 50 you have 26 yrs left! 26 years I’ve been a mom for 25 yrs and that flew by! I’ve been […]
Maybe, I’m just an old soul. Maybe, I want the best of both worlds. I like having an only fans and I love the convenience of the Internet and all the apps on my phone but part of me likes doing things the old-fashioned way. When I think back to how things used to be, […]
Sometimes I wonder if I’m just better off not knowing things and what those things actually say about me! Not long ago I had a conversation about two and three syllable car names and learned that Corvette is not pronounced “Cor ah vette” that sent me down a rabbit trail wondering what else have I […]
First of all, I have to say I really don’t feel like I’m in my 50s but I am! I will be 54 this September. Since entering my 50s, I have begun a series of changes some have lasted and some were discarded almost immediately but many are frequently revisited! I began doing chair yoga […]