7 Steps To Your Dream Life!

It’s time! The past few years have been about growth and change. Preparing for this moment. I’ve been doing a lot of work on myself. I’ve gotten sober! That was my step one for creating lasting change, eliminating my temptation to disappear into a bottle after a harsh defeat. Instead facing my fears and attacking them head on. Creating the life I want for myself for the rest of my life. This blog is about what I’m doing and how I’m doing it.

1. I made a list of what wasn’t working . For me it was my heavy drinking, and poor sleep habits (partially caused by drinking) My periods of sinking into my problems through alcohol or sleeping away my weekends impacted my ability to earn and grow.
   
2. Addressing the things I was avoiding. Really looking at my health, relationships, career and finances. I made appointments I’ve been putting off, medical, dental, vision etc. I looked at my earnings, and my debt. My assets and strengths and where I could improve.
   
3. Eliminating or Detoxing parts of my life that didn’t benefit me but instead wasted time. This meant cutting out some people from my life that were having a negative impact on my mental health or were time wasters especially when it came to business.
   
4. This kind of piggybacks number 3. Boundaries! I work full time outside of the home as well as about 30 plus hours a week at home. I was facing some serious burnout. Having my laptop, iPad or phone with me most of the time means I’m always getting messages, texts and emails. My day job is easier to unplug from but when working from home it’s hard for me to know when to take a day off. To further complicate matters I film a lot of what we do for digital content. I’m working to creat those boundaries of private and public.
5. Accepting myself for who I am. That is not to say I won’t continue to grow as a person but it means being comfortable with who I am. Not everyone will like me . As a digital content creator on social media as well as on multiple adult platforms, everyone has their opinions about my nails, my hair and my body, what I show vs. what I should show, what camera angles they prefer and so on!
   
6. New skills! Learning new things and listening to new voices, finding experts in the areas where I want to grow or change and seeking cousel. There are a lot of people willing to share how they got where they are. Sometimes for free and sometimes through a mentorship. There are so many resources, books, blogs, and YouTube channels offering advice on almost every topic from starting a million dollar business to creating a Tik Tok video! People are offering advice!
   
7. New attitude! I’m learning a lot about mindfulness these days and how we think impacts every area of life including health and finance. How what we believe often informs what we do! What do you think about yourself? Your health, earning potential or ability to learn, grow and change? There are countless examples of people that achieved their dreams and goals by first believing they could!
   
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